Yesterday, as we celebrated Elsie’s 5th birthday, it marked the end of my birthday week. I actually thought her birthday was today. As she went to bed on Sunday night she told me in her sweet little voice, I’m not going to be grumpy anymore! When I asked why, she told me, Because the day after tomorrow is my birthday! I was pretty tired and took her word for it. Not until I woke up yesterday and saw some special birthday emails for her, did I realize that yes, indeed, it was her birthday. Please tell me something like that has happened to another mom out there. So, I scrounged in my secret trunk trying to find and hang up the Happy Birthday banner I made for such occasions. All I came up with was BIRTHDAY. Where is the HAPPY?! I kept asking myself. Before I go into more of her surprise (for me) birthday, let me back up a week and divulge all the fun that was had the past week.
It all started on my birthday, when the three older kids came with Matthew & I on a road trip to NJ. We drove 3 hours there and 3 hours back, with about 45 mins in NJ total. It was work-related, so nothing too exciting. The highlight was hitting the beach for fifteen minutes.
I had some wonderful friends over that night for tea and snacks and a whole lot of fun. The next day I was served breakfast in bed by my oldest. She loves to do this. The rest of the week was full of dentist appointments, Betty learning to put the car windows down with her bare little toes streeetching across her carseat, sweet sleeping children, lincoln log creations, school, tea, and much more.
Then came Friday. After dropping off the kids, Matthew and I spent the weekend away. What a wonderful time. Becoming disconnected happens so quickly! As it should be, we have both changed and grown, and sometimes we miss that happening and we look at the other as if they are a stranger we should know, but don’t. It was a treat and a blessing to have this time.
From the beautiful inns where we stayed, to the memories made, it was a weekend to remember!
The week was completed with an impromptu meeting with dear, old friends.
There’s the Happy.