“This is NOT a normal life!” she exclaimed from the back seat. I glanced back at the stop sign to see what she was doing. She had a small notebook and pencil. Her legs were crossed, the tips of her fuzzy boots sticking up almost to her knees. “This is NOT a normal life.” She was playing MASH. With herself. I laughed out loud while Betty told me how she was living in a mansion with THREE children and driving a Ford. Oh, and she was married to Toby Mac. When something is interesting or exciting for her and she wants me to listen she will say, “Hear this!” Such a herald. She is doing fabulously in school, reading sentences like, “The path led to the shed.” She recently celebrated her 6th birthday.
Elsie is a great teacher and when she’s not DOING school, she is PLAYING school. She has a vim and vigor for life. A shaker and a mover. Literally. The other day she and Betty rearranged their room. A girl after her mama’s own heart. She is our pancake-maker, and does a fine job of it!
Jack is back into wrestling season full swing. When he’s not wrestling, he is doing pushups. Hundreds of pushups. I’m excited when I do 30 in one day. He’s not satisfied until he does 300. We also recently discovered a Ninja Warrior gym not too far from us. He conquered the warped wall the first day there, and loves to challenge himself with the other obstacles.
Elijah is my right-hand man in the kitchen. We can throw together supper in less than half an hour. I love teaching him stuff in the kitchen. He gets my style of cooking, which doesn’t lean on recipes as much as a hunch on how different flavors will work together. Having an instant pot has made dinner prep SO easy. He is a geometry whiz, and we are looking in to some sort of coding class, as he is bent in this direction. Sometimes he explains things to me and I have no clue what he’s talking about. He’s also doing daily pushups and slowly inching closer to my height.
Nadine is our baby-whisperer. Harry and her have a special bond. She is convinced he can say her name, and it does sound pretty close. I honestly don’t know how I could manage this house without her.
Harry adds the most perfect element of sweetness, joy and delight to our home. When he starts to talk, everyone comes running. He smiles and the sun comes out. He is two months old already! He is the king of expressions, and makes so many faces. We’re slowly getting onto a sleeping schedule.
Though we often pass like ships in the night (literally), Matthew is my biggest support. Between coaching, working, and being an amazing dad to these six…
He is also the one whom my soul loves.
It’s not hard to love him, but sometimes lack of sleep and the demands of being needed by 6 people can sometimes push me over the edge. He is so patient with me. It’s not tear-free, anger-free, frustration-free or hardship-free. But it is full of joy, forgiveness, humor, and faith. Had we been thrown the life we are living now, I might have also exclaimed: “This is NOT a normal life!” But it’s the perfect life for me.